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Q. What are Interpersonal skills ?

Interpersonal skills are the skills used by a

person to interact with each other .Theyinclude everything from communication &

listening to attitude & deportment .These

skills refer to the character of an individual

rather than skills that can be taught in a

classroom .


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Elements of good Interpersonal

Skills

Trust

Positive Attitude

Goodness


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Barriers for positive personality

& Interpersonal Skills

Ego

Lack of commitment

Negative emotions

Low self esteem Impatient


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Steps to build a

good personality


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Accept Responsibility

Accepting responsibilities is

actually self promotion .

Its easier to take Credits than

Responsibilities .

Being Irresponsible leads to commencement of

blame game .


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A little consideration, a little

thought for others, makes all the

difference.

Consideration is something that is or is to be kept in

mind in making a decision, evaluating facts, etc.One shall have consideration for self and others.

Consideration to others fetches lot of greatness.

Any person employed in organization and his

consideration to organization makes him upliftment inhis job.

So also,showing consideration,courtesy,politeness etc

gives a person a

Positive personality in the society.


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Think Win/ Win

Win-Win is not a technique; its a total philosophy of human

interaction. In fact, it is one of six paradigms of interaction.

It is a frame of mind and heart that constantly seeks mutual

benefit in all human interactions.

With a Win-Win solution, all parties feel good about the

decision and feel committed to the action plan.

Its not your way or my way;itsa better way,a higher way.


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Choose Your Words

Carefully

Words reflect attitude.Wrong words can hurt feelings

and destroy relationship and working atmosphere.More people have been hurt by an improper choice of

words than by any natural disaster.

Words spoken out of bitterness can cause irreparable

damage.Spoken words cant be retrieved.

Therefore,carefully using of words is very important

for a person aspiring for pleasing personality.


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Dont Criticize and

Complain

Criticism is of two types-positive and negative.Positive criticism motivates and negative criticism

depresses.

When a person is criticized,he becomes defensive.

Positive criticism is a constructive criticism.Criticism should not hurt the feelings of other rather it

should persuade them.

The greatest people in the world have been criticized.


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Smile and be kindIt is the important step to building a positive

personality. Smile!always remember to keep that

beautiful smile on your face.Smiling is actually proven to

keep you happier when you are

down and gloomy on a dreadful day. If you are sad,smile ! If you are happy, smile. It makes you a

happier person and gives other people a better

impression on you.


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Put positive interpretation on

other people's behaviour

It is the important step to building a positive

personality. Smile!always remember to keep that

beautiful smile on your face. Smiling is actually

proven to keep you happier when you are down

and gloomy on a dreadful day. If you are sad, smile

! If you are happy, smile. It makes you a happier

person and gives other people a better impression

on you.


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Be a good listener

It is the important step to building a positive

personality . Smile always remember to keep that

beautiful smile on your face.Smiling is actually proven to

keep you happier when you

are down and gloomy on a dreadful day. If you aresad, smile ! If you are happy, smile. It makes you a

happier person and gives other people a better

impression on you.


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Enthusiasm means the zeal to do something in

life . In order to achieve anything in life a

person has to be cc as well as full of

enthusiasm and positivity .

A person should also have a positive and open

refers to acceptance of all the challenge in life. A

person should accept all the challenge happily andpositively .

Enthusiastic


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How to gave sincere and honest appreciation

De-clutter your mind

Think of the person and not any of the negative abouthim/her

Drop all your apprehensions and remain positive

Proceed further and kill the voice which says no

Tell yourself . I should because this is amazing.

GIVE HONEST AND SINCERE

APPRECIATION


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Mistake are something that every human being

commit at some point in life . Mistake must not be

treated as obstacles instead they must be must be

treated as stopping stones to success . Committing

mistakes is not a crime , its just a sign of human

being . Committing mistakes is not wrong buthiding mistakes by not accepting it is wrong .

Commit mistakes but have the guts to accept your

mistake and dont repeat them.

WHEN WE MAKE A MISTAKE WE SHOULD

ACCEPT IT ..

IMMEDIATELY OR WILLINGLY


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When the Other Person Realizes and Admits

That He Has Made a Mistake, Congratulate

Him and Give Him a Way Out to Save Face

No one is perfect. Everyone makes a mistake and

for that everyone should get another chance to

prove themselves right.

Accepting our own faults and errors is not that

easy. If one realizes his/her mistakes theneveryone else support him/her.

The self esteem of a mistaken person should not

be hurt. It should be encouraged.


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Discuss But Don't Argue

People should be a part of a healthy discussionrather than argument.

Its the behavior that shows whether a personis arguing or discussing.

The best way to avoid the unhealthy argumentis to leave the conversation.

In an argument people try to win over to showwho is right rather than what is right

In a discussion everyone must be treatedequally and given an opportunity to presenttheir views.


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Don't Gossip

Gossip is an idle talk that is done in the absenceof any person.

It is an unproductive work where people talk

less about fact and add their own falseviews.

Gossip could be the reason for anothers lifesorrow and sadness.

Gossiping create a negative impression of oursin front of other people and let us down amongpeople.


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Turn Your Promises Into

Commitments Difference b\w A Promise & A Commitment

Imagine a world without a commitment. What would happen

to relationships between Spouses?

Employers and employees?

Parents and children?

Students and teachers?

Buyers and sellers?

Commitment says , I am predictable in

the unpredictable future


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Be Grateful But Do Not Expect Gratitude

It is a beautiful word.

It is a feeling.

Improves our personality and

builds character.

It develops out of humility. It is conveyed through our attitude towards other.

Reflects our behavior.

What does gratitude teach us?

The Story of Christ


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Be Dependable And Practice Loyalty

The old adage , an ounce of loyalty isworth more than a pound ofcleverness, is universal and eternal.

Ability is important but Dependabilityis crucial.

The two childhood friends.


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We are born empty handed and one day wewould even die with nothing in our hands, what

did we get that we will carry back with ourselves.A person should never be struck with mistakes or

mishappening in life, keeping grudges towardsanyone locks us behind a door which wouldneeded to be opened by us at some or otherpoint in life. Having grudges & developing a

pessimistic attitude towards anyone leads to astate of negativity

.AVOID BEARING GRUDGES .

FORGIVE AND FORGET


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Honesty:refers to a facet of moral character and connotes

positive and virtuous attributes such as .Honesty means

being trustworthy , loyal , fair and sincere.

HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY. INTEGRITY: quality of being honest and having strong

moral principles; moral up righting . In ethics, integrity is

regarded by many people as the honesty and truthfulness

or accuracy of ones action. SINCERITY: It is the virtue of one who speaks and acts

truly about his or her own feelings , beliefs , thoughts and

desires.

HONESTY ,INTEGRITY,SINCERITY


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Humility is the mother of all virtues ;purity charity and obedience .It is in

being humbles that are love become real,

devoted and ardent . These words ring true

, but you dont have to be mother Theresa

, or even religious at all, to make an effort to

practice humility in your everyday life

:-MOTHER THERESA.

PRACTICE HUMILITY


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Be Understanding and Caring

A caring attitude acknowledgeds one's felt

responsibility to respond to the need of another.

To care is to show deep interest or heartfelt

concern for another's well being

An understanding attitude validates the meaning

of a statement feeling ,or situation.It does not

presume to know all the answers already.


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Practice Courtesy on a daily

basis Courtesy is nothing more than consideration for

others it opens doors that

would not otherwise open

small courtesies will take

person much further than

cleve mess.

Manners: Courtesy and manners go hand onhand.it is equally important showing good

manners brings out a feeling of warmth and

acceptance in the home.


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Develop a sense of humor

Have a sense of humor andyou will posses the ability tolaugh at yourself. A sense ofhumor makes a personliable and attractive.somepeople are humor-impairedLearn to laugh at yourselfbecause it is the safest

humor. Laughing at yourselfgives you the energy tobounce back.


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Negative people humour may include sarcasm , put down

and hurtful remarks any humour involving sarcasm that

make fun of other in poor taste humour can be valuable ordangerous depending on whether you are laughing with

some one or at some one when humour involve making fun

of or ridiculing others , it is not inn good taste nor it is

innocent hurting other feeling can be cruel some people get

their fun by putting others down .

Sarcasm alienates people it is a good idea to keep humour

low risk

Don't we sarcastic and put

others down


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Empathy is the capacity to share or recognise emotion

experienced by other sentient or fictional being . It is the

ability to feel an share another person emotion .some

believe in that empathy involve the ability to match

another emotion , while other believes that empathyinvolve being tender hearted toward another person since

empathy involve understanding the emotional states of

other people the way it is characterised is derivative of the

way emotion them selves are characterised if for exampleemotion are taken to be centrally characterised by bodily

feelings , then grasping the badly feelings of another will

be central to empathy

Show Empathy


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Conclusion

At the end we would like to say that good

interpersonal skills can be achieved by goodness

,psiteve attitude & trust and this also can help to

eliminate the barriors like Ego ,Irresponcibleness

& lack of Concistency .


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very much


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